The Truest Form of Love in Your Life’s Journey

Love cannot be anything else but itself. Love is not love if it hurts you. Love is a good thing and cannot simultaneously be a bad thing as well, otherwise it wouldn’t be good at all. People grossly misdiagnose love when they say “love hurts”. That’s simply untrue.

It is not love that hurts. It is insecurity, fear, mistrust, etc. that hurts. It is most accurate to say relationships hurt instead of saying love hurts. How ever could love hurt when it is loveliness and affection?

When you’re in a relationship and you’re in love anything that will hurt you will hurt you because it is not love. This is why it is essential to heal yourself so you can establish a deep self-love that will exterminate insecurity, low self-esteem, fear, self-doubt, and anything that will jeopardize your experience of being in love. Love exists with many other things and those things should not bring love down to their level.

Fall in Love with Yourself

Falling in love with yourself is an act that every human being ought to do. We fall in love all the time. Falling in love is not just for the romantic partner. You fall in love when you have a pet. You fall in love with a new friend, camping, a song, a hobby, a location, and so on. In this sense, it is safe to say every human is capable of falling in love.

Decide to intentionally fall in love with yourself because unlike all the other things you can fall in love with being in love with another human being brings out whatever is inside you. If what’s inside you is not love, the “love” within your relationship will be transformed into the pain in its varieties that is inside you. That’s when you’ll think that love is painful when in reality not being healed from insecurities and anxieties and traumas is the only thing that can hurt you.

Think about it. When someone lies in a relationship, it is not love that’s hurting you, it’s their dishonesty. When you feel unpleasantly about your boyfriend laughing with another girl it is not love that hurts it is feeling insecure with yourself.

Unlearn What You Thought Love Was

Love can never hurt you because it wouldn’t be love if it did. Falsely accusing love is taking away the opportunity to address matters of the inner being. If you do not correctly diagnose a matter you cannot cure it.

All that love can be guilty of is putting you in a position to be hurt by the things that are not love. It is your responsibility to ensure that you intentionally heal yourself so that when in the blissful vulnerability of love you are not susceptible to all that is not loving or good.

Practice self-awareness and introspection consistently to always get to the root cause of the hurt you feel when in a relationship with anyone, in anything situation, and a relationship with yourself especially. Be mindful and enlightened of the real state of the matter to establish true wellness.

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