What They Think About You is What Exists Within Them
A person cannot be on the outside what they are not on the inside. What flows out of a person is what comes out because it is what a person is filled with inside. How does a person reveal to you who they are? By their communication in words and behavior, as these are what is expressed outside the body as coming from inside the body.
When you know of the negative things someone thinks about you or what they say about you, that is when you know that is what that person perceives about themselves, as that’s what’s inside of them because it is what’s coming out or what’s perceived. What comes out of us can’t not be what’s inside of us, can it? Even if a person might deserve to hear negative criticism, it is still the talker who is being revealed. And so we are all constantly revealing only ourselves. Say you were a judge in court, still, what you perceived and ruled for or against would be tied to your conditioned mind, which makes it good that there are jurors in the jury for multiple perceptions and conditionings that approach a matter specific to them.
In the past few years, some of us have become aware of this very phenomenon, calling it “projecting your insecurities on others”. This is true, however, we don’t seem to remember this knowledge in our engagements. People continue to be extremely offended by others, and continue to let what others say cut too deeply than what should be the case. Granted, words are powerful because they are spiritual (untouchable), just as humans are spirits, so words reach home (our inner beings). That is to say, feeling some level of hurt is understandable and warranted. However, knowledge is a spirit too directly from the Holy Spirit, and so acquired knowledge should be able to inform our ways of feeling, thinking, and being.
Wisdom is a spirit too, that is from the Spirit of God, and what is wisdom but to practice knowledge? We need to move in wisdom, not in feelings. We should acknowledge, feel, and process our emotions because they are a part of our human experience, but they are not our whole experience, nor are they the most crucial part. They are merely informational. We shouldn’t be moved or live by our emotions, we should be moved and live by wisdom, which is from Almighty God alone.
Let any negativity coming from another in pursuit of hurting you be a direct understanding of what’s hurting them. When someone is talking to you, whether good or bad is coming out of their mouth, remember that it is as if you are holding a mirror and they are not really talking to you but are talking to themselves. Sometimes life makes this scenario obvious when someone is expressing their emotions because then it is evident that what’s coming out is what’s inside. But remember that this reality doesn’t begin and end with emotions, it continues in ways of thinking and being. Some of us have become aware of body language and how it externally communicates what a person feels about themselves internally. Body language is not only in inaudible movements, it is also in what comes out of the body. Remember this always because remembering is the key to practicing acquired knowledge and thus living and walking as wise.
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